Proverbsby David Cook
Proverbs 18 offers several notable observations about God, our speech, marriage, and friendship. In contrast to the people we should seek, there are also several types we should avoid.
The security of God's name: Verses 10-11 compare the name of God with the wealth of the rich. God's name means His person, character, and attributes; the righteous who depend on Him will find true safety and security. The rich, on the other hand, trust in their wealth, imagining it to be unassailable. But this is a false sense of security, as we have seen in previous comparisons of wealth and righteousness.
Watching one's words: Two complementary observations are made about the tongue. Verses 6-7 describe how a fool talks himself into trouble, while verses 20-21 note how a wise person's speech benefits him. Together, they warn us to be careful with our speech, for the tongue has great potential for good or ill-″the power of life and death″ (v. 21). When thinking about whether one should speak, the old maxim, ″When in doubt, don't″, is worth remembering.
Marriage: Finding a wife is a good thing, according to verse 22. It will involve effort and searching, but it is worth it! This proverb can be seen in the light of God's gift of a helpmate to Adam (Genesis 2:18-20), when God noted that ″it is not good for the man to be alone″.
Friendship: Fair-weather friends are of no use to a man, compared to those who stick by him through thick and thin (Proverbs 18:24). This proverb puts together the warning of 19:4-″wealth attracts many friends″-and the encouraging advice of 17:17, ″A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity.″ A true friend is constant and loyal; it is a boon to have one and to be one.
This chapter of Proverbs also talks about several types of people we should avoid:
6Kidner, Proverbs (2009), 127
Take another look at the type of people to avoid. Do you fit into any of the categories? How can you be ″a friend who sticks closer than a brother″ (Proverbs 18:24)?
Proverbs 18:10 offers an encouraging promise to those who ″run to″ the Lord. What does it mean to seek refuge in the Lord, in practical terms?